Our project manager invited a high ranking police official to the ship and I arranged some dental and minor surgical procedures for him. He was the head of the special investigation of some people involved in a coup attempt in 1997, and had the suspects in jail. The RUF broke them out, and subsequently a coalition was formed between the existing government and those that had freed. This officer became #1 on their hit list. His daughter was 2 months old at the time and they came looking for him at his house. As he hid under the bed, his wife went out with the baby in her arms and screamed that when the child was born he deserted the family, she had not seen him since and if they found him they should put a bullet in his head but not before they brought him back so she could tell him how much she despised him. They bought it and he then had to flee to "the bush" and eventually Guinea because if anyone saw him around the house, those looking for him would know his wife lied and would kill his whole family. Some of his co-investigator/friends were rounded up into a building and burned alive. What this country has seen is unbelievable, in fact, the officer said when he thinks back on it all it seem like a dream.
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Welcome to the blog for our Mercy Ships service in Sierra Leone through June 22nd, 2011. We hope these entries give you a sense of the hope that is being brought to this very poor country. One can't change the world, but one can't not try to at least make a difference in relieving pain and suffering in an individual's life when the opportunity arises. Please note that the opinions and comments of this blog are not part of the Mercy Ships organization.
Florence's Wedding
The wedding was beautiful. There was a traditional wedding before the church wedding which is very symbolic. A calabash bowl is packed with a needle & thread to show the wife will take care of the husband's clothes, stitch them & keep the home, a bitter & a sweet cola nut symbolizing marriage has sweet & bitter times. A matt which shows that even in hard times, no money "to buy a bed" you don't leave your husband. These items are wrapped up in the calabash bowl with a white cloth which also symbolizes peace. The cloth is saved as a burial cloth I believe for the mother to symbolize her daughter was married when she dies. This bowl is brought when the husbands family comes to the brides house & knocks at their door & they say they have come to bring peace & they noticed a rose in the garden & wanted to pick it. Then they come in & they are given cold water. Then "false brides" greet the husband's family & they are asked is this the rose you saw & they will say no until the real bride appears. The calabash bowl is something that grows on a tree that is dried out & used for this ceremony. It is carried by a young virgin child on the father's side & given to the bride. I got this info from my day workers & another married woman here & I probably didnt get everything corrert but this is close I think. I love the symbolism & I think it is a wonderful tradition.
Saturday, April 23, 2011
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wow... so heart-wrenching for the whole of society there... to lose, in a way, a whole generation to such misery - both body and soul. thanks for the update - always praying for you guys and all of your colleagues. I'm doing swell - in the third week of radiation - three more to go and I'm DONE! xoxo
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