I had the relative misfortune to draw the “on call spot” for Easter weekend, despite me being the one who puts out the schedule. How does that happen? Anyway, this afternoon the nurses called me about a 7-week-old, 5.3-pound girl who is in our Infant Feeding Program (IFP). The program is designed to allow them to have months of nutritional supplementation in preparation for their cleft palate repair, a defect that limits their intake and development in the first place. They are taken care of at home, but the guardian brought her in because of a fever of 102. She had been feeding less than usual (not a good sign in any infant) and had only had 2 wet diapers. Her head was out-of-proportion to her body, she had large doe like eyes, and her skin was wrinkled without much turgor. She was subdued with a mildly pronounced fontanel-not a good sign either. As we finally located the information on her in the IFP files, we discovered that she was HIV positive, her mother seriously ill, and the baby had recently been started on retroviral medications. This was going to require a major septic workup and an automatic admission on multiple IV antibiotics until her cultures were either negative, or identified the source of her infection. There are no pediatricians on the ship, and this could take a lot resources that would ultimately lead to many other patients not receiving the surgeries they needed as well as being, frankly, beyond our ability to handle. Sierra Leone had just enacted a law that allows all children under 5 years old to get free medical care, so I gave the local children’s hospital a call. I couldn’t reach the administrator on call, so rang the “Wellbodi” doctor. I was actually surprised that the call went through, and to hear an American accent on the other end of the “line”. To my further amazement (given the unfortunate lack of trained physicians and medical resources this country has) the doctor knew the patient by name before I could tell her. She said to bring the baby to the Emergency Department and she would notify the pediatrician on call that the infant was coming. Remember that this doc was not on call, but still available by phone. I was blown away and said so to our nurse supervisor. She agreed and said that the pediatrician is a great doctor, nice person and was surprised that I hadn’t met her. Come to find out that she had grown up as a child on Mercy Ships, left to go to medical school and train as a pediatrician and now practices in Sierra Leone. I was sobbing in tears as I was telling Mary the story. How wonderful and frankly Divine to encounter a person who, having seen as a youth what a dedicated life can mean to those who have been forgotten by most of the world, then decides themselves to train for years in order to make a difference in this neglected corner of the world. I was humbled and broken.
Welcome to the blog for our Mercy Ships service in Sierra Leone through June 22nd, 2011. We hope these entries give you a sense of the hope that is being brought to this very poor country. One can't change the world, but one can't not try to at least make a difference in relieving pain and suffering in an individual's life when the opportunity arises. Please note that the opinions and comments of this blog are not part of the Mercy Ships organization.
Florence's Wedding
The wedding was beautiful. There was a traditional wedding before the church wedding which is very symbolic. A calabash bowl is packed with a needle & thread to show the wife will take care of the husband's clothes, stitch them & keep the home, a bitter & a sweet cola nut symbolizing marriage has sweet & bitter times. A matt which shows that even in hard times, no money "to buy a bed" you don't leave your husband. These items are wrapped up in the calabash bowl with a white cloth which also symbolizes peace. The cloth is saved as a burial cloth I believe for the mother to symbolize her daughter was married when she dies. This bowl is brought when the husbands family comes to the brides house & knocks at their door & they say they have come to bring peace & they noticed a rose in the garden & wanted to pick it. Then they come in & they are given cold water. Then "false brides" greet the husband's family & they are asked is this the rose you saw & they will say no until the real bride appears. The calabash bowl is something that grows on a tree that is dried out & used for this ceremony. It is carried by a young virgin child on the father's side & given to the bride. I got this info from my day workers & another married woman here & I probably didnt get everything corrert but this is close I think. I love the symbolism & I think it is a wonderful tradition.
Thanks for sharing that story Ken. I cried too. I love seeing the pictures of the babies and mamas even if the occasion was a bad one. With the highest maternal death rate in the world that is a beautiful sight. Mary, I'm sure you are an encouragement to all you meet. Carry on. Becky Sherman
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